In several of my next blog posts I’m going to refer to Joshua Cooper Ramo’s excellent new book, The Age of the Unthinkable, and use quotes from his book to jump-start my own thinking about current issues. The first quote is this:
“There will be many moments in the future where we will be surprised, confused, or terrified. Our usual reaction — to hit back or cower — needs to be augmented with an instinct for generosity and decency.”
Ramo is speaking of national conflicts that lead to violent responses, and his call for generosity and decency is a huge request in the face of people’s fear of genocide and attack, of physical safety in a dangerous world; but I think that this quote is even more far-reaching.
In the face of a rapidly-changing world, including economic instability, climate destabilization, energy upheavals, and potential pandemics, many of us wake up preparing for the worst, wondering if the morning’s news will bring catastrophe. Our adrenaline is flowing, and we’re prepared to fight for our and our family’s survival. Yet this reaction -– hit back or cower, ready to protect ourselves –- often prevents us from consciously choosing generosity and decency, from cultivating our solutionary selves in favor of only our reactionary selves. Much of the media just fans the flames of our reactivity, rather than encouraging our far-sighted, engaged efforts at system changing.
Those of us who are parents learn early on to “count to ten” before reacting to our tantrum-throwing, back-talking children. We know that wisdom isn’t always our first response. So, too, do we need to count to ten before cowering or hitting back in the face of the myriad problems and the concomitant media blitz that has us ever ready to fight or flee, instead of digging deep into our bag of values for those qualities that will actually better serve us and our world.
Whether it’s peak oil, swine flu, global warming, or some egregious form of cruelty, count to ten, dig deep, and bring your generosity and decency to the task of solving the challenge.
~Zoe
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