The Ongoing Gift of Gratitude

In a recent Wall Street Journal article, “Thank You. No, Thank You,” we learn that giving thanks is good for you. Not a big surprise, but post-Thanksgiving, it’s nice to be reminded that cultivating appreciation and thankfulness is a win-win all year round. While this article reveals what most of us already know from our life experience (and common sense), it’s interesting that actual studies demonstrate that when we experience gratitude we’re healthier, happier, sleep better (and even earn more money). Cultivating gratitude is good for kids and teens, too; not exactly a surprise, but something we might want to help our adolescents, in particular, to experience. In our family, we have made it a ritual to hold hands before dinner and each say something we’re grateful for. Unfortunately, too often, the answers have became rote, but I have insisted on the ritual nonetheless. I think it’s important.

On Thanksgiving morning before anyone else in the family awoke, I spent some time reflecting upon what I was grateful for. I composed an email to the staff of the Institute for Humane Education where I work, because my gratitude to them felt so deep I had to express it. And it felt so good to compose this expression of thanks. Then I took my dogs for a walk along the ocean and continued thinking about all that I was grateful for, and I noticed that I was smiling as I walked. Indeed, gratitude feels great.

So, post-Thanksgiving, remember to reflect upon your own gratitude each day. It will help make your life, and the world, a better place.

With thanks to those of you who read my blog :)

Zoe Weil
Author of Most Good, Least Harm and Above All, Be Kind

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Black Friday/Buy Nothing Day: What We Buy Matters

Today is Black Friday. We’re told it is the biggest shopping day of the year. You’ll find massive sales to jump start your holiday shopping, and you can start very early in the morning. In fact, here’s a website that posts the hours for a bunch of chain stores. Why, you can start shopping at Ralph Loren or Old Navy at midnight, just moments after Thanksgiving ends!

Apparently, we’re willing to go along with this selling frenzy even though it means long lines in crowded stores. We go along because we’ve been told to. It’s Black Friday after all.

Adbusters Magazine launched Buy Nothing Day in response to Black Friday. It’s a campaign to get us to reexamine our shopping habits, and it has gained some traction. Lots of people respond to Black Friday by buying nothing in honor of Buy Nothing Day.

My own shopping habits have never been any different on the Friday following Thanksgiving than any other day of the year, and I personally reject both the call to shop and the call to buy nothing. Both feel like gimmicks to make me change my behavior for a day. What I want is for people to examine their shopping 365 days of the year.

What we buy matters. In the most democratic manner of all, it is a vote. When you spend money you are voting for the things you buy. Money is a reward that says to the recipient, “Good job, do it again!” So what do you want to vote for? That’s a tough question. Most economists, politicians, and employees in stores will tell you to vote with your money as much as possible. The more you spend, the better the economy, the more people will be employed, the sooner we’ll be able to pay off the deficit, the brighter the future will be. But it’s not so simple. Most environmentalists will remind you that the more you drive to malls and spend your money in stores the more carbon is released into the atmosphere, the more resources are depleted, and the faster we trash our planet. Most human rights advocates will want you to realize that the more you spend on cheap chain store products produced overseas the more you’ll be contributing to sweatshop and slave labor. Most animal advocates will wish that you would reconsider the fur, down, wool, and leather you buy in clothing stores and the myriad personal care products tested on animals in the cruelest of ways.

We need to consider what is worth voting for, which foods, which clothes, which electronics, which toys, and so on. I would be happy to attend a local crafts fair on Black Friday and support the many cottage industries in my county by buying homemade jams, artwork, pottery, and so on. I would do so consciously and enthusiastically, choosing holiday gifts with care and love, helping my community while choosing special gifts for loved ones.

What you buy matters. Today, on Black Friday/Buy Nothing Day, I hope people will commit to shopping consciously and conscientiously.

Zoe Weil
Author of Most Good, Least Harm: A Simple Principal for a Better World and Meaningful Life

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Teaching for America? Teaching for the World!

Tom Friedman’s op-ed in The New York Times, “Teaching for America,” is yet another cry for major reform of our education system, but this time with a twist: for the sake of national security. As Friedman writes: “When I came to Washington in 1988, the cold war was ending and the hot beat was national security and the State Department. If I were a cub reporter today, I’d still want to be covering the epicenter of national security – but that would be the Education Department.”

Why national security? Because, as President Obama says, whoever “out-educates us today is going to out-compete us tomorrow.” But not only do we need to reform education for economic national security, apparently we also need to reform education for military national security. Friedman quotes Secretary of Education Arne Duncan who said, “One of the more unusual and sobering press conferences I participated in last year was the release of a report by a group of top retired generals and admirals. Here was the stunning conclusion of their report: 75 percent of young Americans, between the ages of 17 to 24, are unable to enlist in the military today because they have failed to graduate from high school, have a criminal record, or are physically unfit.” Later in the essay, Friedman quotes Duncan again when he points out that in South Korea “they refer to their teachers as ‘nation builders.’”

Another expert Friedman quotes is Tony Wagner, author of “The Global Achievement Gap,” who explains it this way. “There are three basic skills that students need if they want to thrive in a knowledge economy: the ability to do critical thinking and problem-solving; the ability to communicate effectively; and the ability to collaborate.”

I basically agree with this last statement, though I wouldn’t limit those three skills as essentials for thriving in the “knowledge economy.” To me they are essentials in the most important work each one of us needs to embrace: contributing to innovative solutions for a world in crisis. These skills must be taught in part to enable the next generation to thrive in the knowledge economy, but more importantly to be solutionaries for a healthy, just and thriving world.

I was with Wagner until Friedman quoted him again. Apparently Wagner thinks we should create a West Point for teachers: “We need a new National Education Academy, modeled after our military academies, to raise the status of the profession and to support the R.& D. that is essential for reinventing teaching, learning and assessment in the 21st century.”

The military analogy threw me, because the grave threats we face are global, not national. Our economies are inextricably entwined. Our environments are interconnected and interdependent. “Nation-building” and “competing for jobs” are ultimately going to be outmoded schemas in a world in which collaboration and mutual problem-solving are required to avert catastrophes. A military analogy is exactly the wrong one for our educational crisis. Nation-building is a 20th, not a 21st century vision for educational goals.

But Friedman is right when he focuses much of his essay on teachers. It is teachers who will prepare a generation of solutionaries, or not. It is teachers who will instill critical and creative thinking skills among their students, or not. It is teachers who will find ways to infuse their curricula with meaning, importance, and relevancy (despite the standardized tests their students must pass that largely lack these attributes), or not. And Arne Duncan is right to seek to emulate those countries whose teachers were all in the top third of their colleges and who are paid good salaries for their high-status professions. This, more than anything, will help.

But until we decide what we’re educating the next generation for, we will still flounder. Are we educating a generation simply to compete in the global economy or to build our nation? Or are we educating a generation of solutionaries who collaborate, communicate, and think critically and creatively to solve the grave challenges of our world?

Let’s not just cover the new and exciting “education beat.” Let’s define what it’s for.

Zoe Weil
Author of Most Good, Least Harm and The Power and Promise of Humane Education

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The World Becomes What You Teach: Transforming Our Education Systems to Graduate Solutionaries for a Better World

What is schooling for? Why aren’t we taking advantage of the power of education as a preventative tool? Why are our schools full of debate teams and clubs, but no “solutionary” teams to inspire and empower students to work to solve real-world challenges in and out of school? Why do we continue to educate our students only to become verbally, mathematically and technologically literate, so that they continue to perpetuate unhealthy, destructive and inhumane systems?

These are some of the questions that IHE President, Zoe Weil, explores in her latest essay, published in the Fall/Winter 2010 issue of Green Horizons. Here are a couple of excerpts:

“Too many of us are spending our lives desperately trying to put out the fires of destruction, oppression and cruelty, but what if we were to invest a bit more of our time on prevention? Education is prevention. Education is the key to understanding the connections between our personal, career, and civic choices and their multitude of effects. Education is the avenue by which we become informed, passionate lifelong learners able to solve complex problems. Education is also the way in which we dispel our self-righteousness and cultivate our humility in the face of uncertainty.”

“…What if our curricula revolved around overarching themes, such as food, shelter, energy, protection, or transportation — all necessary components of life and all largely produced or carried out in unsustainable, unhealthy, and inhumane ways? What if core competencies in language arts, social studies, math, and science focused on these themes, and students brought their new skills and learning to bear on relevant issues of our time to come up with ideas that would make such systems healthy and just?”

“…I believe that as a society we are not striving for worthy enough goals for our children. We are not meeting their great potential with meaningful enough education. We are failing them, not only because they are not all learning to read, write, and do arithmetic, but also because they are not learning to apply these foundational tools toward critical purposes. The truth is that we may well be preparing them for a future that is more degraded, dangerous, and unhealthy than our own.”

Read the complete essay (pdf).

(Published by IHE Staff)

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Bill McKibben’s Eaarth

I just finished Bill McKibben’s Eaarth: Making a Life on a Tough New Planet. McKibben, a journalist and prolific author who has focused on environmental issues in general, and global warming in particular, for more than 20 years, is well known not only for his efforts to educate through his writing, but also to motivate. He spearheaded the movement www.350.org to engage people across the globe in taking action to compel a reduction of carbon dioxide in the atmosphere to 350 parts per million, a number largely thought to be the sweet spot for maintaining a stable climate.

But as McKibben tells us, it’s too late to maintain a stable climate. We didn’t heed the warnings when we needed to; we plowed ahead with unabated growth on the back of fossil fuels, and we have arrived at planet Eaarth, recognizable as our home planet, but already different.

But while Eaarth is a sobering read, it is not a hopeless one. Unlike some authors who advocate for an end to civilization to “save our planet,” McKibben’s prescription is really not all that radical, though it will be challenging. McKibben takes us on a journey to understand our planetary situation and advocates living in a decentralized manner. Nothing we haven’t done for 99+% of our history, but something that now seems unimaginable, globalized as our economy is. McKibben is no Luddite, though. And the manner in which he embraces our globalized information system – through the Internet – is a reminder that we can lead “sophisticated” lives as 21st century citizens, without unduly trashing our planet, and while slowing the inevitable continued rise in temperatures which pose grave, frightening threats we’ve already begun to experience, and which will certainly escalate.

What I appreciated about McKibben’s book is that it’s not the end of the story. His advocacy for decentralized living is not so hard to achieve, but it is just the first step. We have no idea what ideas will emerge and what possibilities lie ahead, and nothing that McKibben suggests will prevent the creativity of humanity from discovering and developing other solutions to our problems. His advocacy for common sense living does not preclude new ideas, ones I fervently believe will be generated by young people if we would embrace a bigger vision of schooling: to educate a generation of solutionaries.

Eaarth is, I believe, verging on essential reading; heeding its call is also essential, and cultivating your own creativity for solutions the true hope.

Zoe Weil
Author of Most Good, Least Harm and The Power and Promise of Humane Education

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Do You Tune Out or Tune in To Atrocities?

I’ve always been struck by people saying that they don’t want to know about a particular atrocity or cruelty or problem in the world. It’s not uncommon to hear this from adults (though rarely from youth). I think the motivation to avoid new knowledge stems from people’s desire to live with integrity. That might sound like an odd statement, but if you learn something that calls into question choices you make, and you really don’t want to change, then you’ll be faced with the unpleasant experience of living without integrity. Better not to know. Ignorance is bliss after all.

But I’m struck by this head-in-the-sand behavior because it’s foreign to me. I’ve always wanted to know. Even if I am unready or unwilling to make a different choice, I’d rather know and live with my discomfort than not know. I’d rather have the opportunity to live more closely aligned with my values.

Over time, though, I’m beginning to understand the disinclination to know. I do get tired of all the bad news, of learning about more problems, of facing my own lack of integrity. This fatigue is helping me understand those people who say, “Don’t tell me about _______. I don’t want to know.” And understanding is a good thing. It helps me build bridges and offer smaller invitations. It helps me teach more wisely and carefully and inspire baby steps toward knowing. It keeps me from being self-righteous, and helps me maintain some humility.

Still, even when I get tired, I know there’s no other path for me. Maybe I’ll take a brief respite from the myriad books and videos that expose me to the grave and horrible problems in the world, but not for long. There’s work to do, and I don’t know how else to live with myself or to live in this imperfect world that needs our good work.

What about you?

Zoe Weil
Author of Most Good, Least Harm

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Be the Campfire, Not the Forest Fire

There’s a metaphor I like to use when talking to fellow activists. I ask them to imagine two fires. The first is a campfire in an opening in the woods. The fire is warm and bright and draws people toward it. They are eager to find a place around the fire, and their beautiful faces glow in the reflected light. They feel good. There is nowhere they’d rather be. The second is a forest fire. It blazes hot and out of control, everyone – people and animals alike – flees.

Each of us has a fire inside of us. It is the fire of our passions and our beliefs, and all of us who are activists know it well. It is the fire that spurs us to learn about what is happening on our planet — to people, animals, and the environment — and it is the fire that spurs us to action to solve the crises we face and challenge the atrocities that still pervade our world. It is often a blazing hot fire. And sometimes, when we have burned out, it is a barely glowing ember. (There is a reason for the term “burned out” after all.)

As change agents, we have a choice about what sort of fire we will be. Will we be the warm campfire that draws people towards us so that we can share what we know and inspire others to make a difference, or will we be the forest fire that rages too hot, causing people to run from us? This is one of the most important questions we can ask ourselves because the fire we cultivate makes an enormous difference in our effectiveness as changemakers.

But as we know, fire is not static, so whatever fire you have been or are today is subject to change. Fires die out if we don’t add fuel, and the sparks that fly off of them can ignite infernos if we add too much fuel too quickly. As change agents, we must seek that perfect balance, adding enough fuel in the form of knowledge and resources to burn just hot enough to ignite change without igniting a conflagration. We will know if our fire needs more fuel if we are not doing the work that must be done and aren’t inspiring others to join us, and we will know if we need to let up on the fuel if people avoid us. If we’ve been activists for a long time, we may have noticed that our fiery youth has diminished too much. If we are new to changemaking, we may need to take great care in cultivating our fire so it doesn’t burn too hot.

Tend your fire carefully. The world needs you to burn just right.

Zoe Weil, author of Most Good, Least Harm and Above All, Be Kind

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Spare Time

The other night my husband and I watched an episode of Modern Family called “Unplugged.” Like the title implies, the storyline followed one family’s challenges to unplug from all electronic devices for a week. It wasn’t very successful. I could relate. I’ve become so addicted to checking email that I can’t even stop at a red light without pulling out my phone to see if anything has arrived in the fifteen minutes since I last checked.

Which is why I relish the hikes my husband, Edwin, and I take each week, living as we do near Acadia National Park and lots of coastline and woods. Away from my computer, I notice the world, move my body, marvel at the beauty surrounding me, and, fairly often, wind up having somewhat odd, and frequently silly exchanges with Edwin. We’ve created our aphorism riddles (see examples here, here, here & here) and Edwin has made up some pretty clever jokes.

During our last venture up a mountain in Acadia Edwin, who loves words, thought it would be interesting to come up with a sentence using words with the ending “iginous.” There aren’t many of them, so you can imagine our dismay when we found out that “litiginous” isn’t actually a word, even though people say it a lot.

Here’s the sentence we came up with:

Vertiginous Virgil vanished from the serpiginous sluiceway on the caliginous coast leaving his lover, litigious Lucy, sobbing and ready to sue.

Now, some might think this isn’t the best use of time. Perhaps we ought to be discussing ways to imbue curricula with humane education and create solutionary teams in schools, but on my breaks from work, it feels just right to play word games and laugh at our strange verbal creations. At least we’re not reading Facebook pages or incessantly checking email.

Zoe Weil, author of Most Good, Least Harm

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Enter to Win an IHE Course & Help Create a Better World

I’m not in the habit of using our blog as a venue for fundraising, but this is annual appeal time at the Institute for Humane Education (IHE), and IHE is offering 5 vouchers for its popular month-long online courses in 2011.

Anyone donating $20 or more before December 11 will be automatically entered to win one of the vouchers.

People consistently describe these courses as life-changing, whether they are individuals taking A Better World, A Meaningful Life, teachers taking Teaching for a Positive Future, or parents taking Raising a Humane Child.

Here’s the 2011 schedule for our online courses. I hope you’ll want to help IHE and enter to win a free course!

2011 Online Course Schedule:

A Better World, A Meaningful Life
Jan. 3-28
Sept. 12-Oct. 7
Put your vision for a better world & a more joyful, examined life into practice.

Teaching for a Positive Future:
Feb. 7-March 4
July 11-Aug. 5
Oct. 17-Nov. 11
Inspire your students to become leaders & changemakers for a healthy, peaceful, sustainable world for all.

Raising a Humane Child:
April 4-29
Learn the strategies & skills you need to parent more mindfully and intentionally & help your child be a joyful, caring citizen in a humane world.

Please help IHE create a more humane, peaceful and sustainable world. DONATE NOW.

Thanks for your support,

Zoe Weil, President
Institute for Humane Education

The Joy of Generosity

In “Kindness of a Stranger That Still Resonates” we read about the legacy of Samuel Stone, aka B. Virdot, who anonymously gave away modest amounts of money during the Great Depression to people in need who wrote him letters about their financial troubles and described how they would use the funds.

My guess is that Samuel Stone experienced great joy in helping his neighbors in Canton, Ohio, during those bleak years. And I imagine that maintaining his anonymity, and hence the purity of his generosity, only increased that joy.

Here’s a MOGO tip for the day: try doing something generous today and do it anonymously. See how it feels. Let me know how it went, if you have a chance.

Zoe Weil
Author of Most Good, Least Harm and Above All, Be Kind

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